Alivia Paige Agee (Liv) —daughter, sister, friend, goofball, and so much more to everyone—died unexpectedly on Tuesday, May 7, 2025 at her family home in Helena, MT. She was only 15 years old.

She was born April 28th, 2010 right here in Helena, MT to Quin and Jessica Agee. She was such a peanut and that nickname stuck with her forever. She was a Freshman at East Helena, she was making plans for her choir trip to Canada, getting her license, summer job, plans with friends, hair ideas, nail ideas and so much more. She spent her days snapping the silliest of pictures to her close friends aka "Sisters". She was such a silly girl, who had an addiction to licking people and bathroom photos. We aren't talking about the average bathroom selfie here.

She loved her brothers, sisters, make up, making videos and so much more. She loved the barn roof; we have a plan for that too. No one says you have to mourn someone in a cemetery. We are making her final resting place on our roof, the same roof she took her friends up to, the same roof she found peace. That same roof, we can look out and see every day. She loved conning her brother Dylan into stealing beer so they could hide in the bathroom and chug beers. She told him to quit being a dumb ass.

She had so much love to give. We wish Alivia could have felt the outpouring of love and support from all those who love her.

Alivia left behind her parents, Quin and Jessica, who tried everything to save her, leaving their hearts completely shattered. Her little brother, Jaxon, who will really miss the special moments he shared with his big sis, as well as her older brother, Dylan, will hold on to the memories of numerous shenanigans they partook in while growing up. Her grandparents, a slew of aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and friends who are family are also left grieving her death. Alivia left behind so many friends from school who loved her and her crazy stunts, endless inappropriate snaps, farts, one-liners, ….. I am sure there is more to add here. Alivia was loved by all who knew her whether someone her age, younger, or adults—She found a way into their hearts and was fast friends with them.

The Celebration of Liv is scheduled for 1pm June 21st, 2025 at the York Community Center. We are taking over the park. Bring blankets or chairs to sit on and possibly a change of clothes. If you know Liv—you'll know why :)

A go fund me has  been set up for the family to help the family with final expenses. https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-quin-and-jessica-in-their-time-of-loss

*****STOP!! reading now if you don't want the real and raw. It's our story, it needs to be shared. No one should have to go through this and most of all no one should ever feel so alone they need to take their own life by their own hands.

If you are reading this and struggling, reach out to someone, anyone! We are there for you and we will help. Know you are loved and someone is there for you! I know if Alivia would have felt the love and outpour of the people who love you. #LIV4LIV     *****

Most obituaries, and not all paint a picture of a long beautiful life as that is the norm in today's world. We don't talk about sensitive subjects. Sensitive subjects like Suicide get sugar coated or swept under the rug. Not with us, The Agee Family is facing it, head on! Yes, Liv took her own life, she hung herself. We found her, Dad, was the first to walk in, I heard his screams, I could hear and feel the pain. I knew what happened. I walked in, I saw she was gone and we were too late. We didn't give up. I hugged her, as her dad cut her down, we laid her down, we did CPR for what felt like an eternity. We felt ribs break, we felt that lifeless body, we cried, we hurt, we were shocked. Her brothers were in their room, Dylan said to be quiet he's trying to sleep. I yelled, your sister just killed herself, he was in disbelief.  Finally help arrived, they kicked us out of her room. All we heard from the kitchen was "no shock advised" and we knew. We were too late and then all the Why's and What If's came flooding in. The York VFD was amazing, they were here first. They stayed way after everyone left. Jason & Nick, Thank you! We needed it and we needed you that night and the next day. Thank you! Thank you to everyone who tried to save our little girl. You forever will be a part of us.

No one should ever have to see or experience that. It is so hard to fathom what demons she was actually battling to make this choice. She made a permanent choice for a temporary solution. We had her on medication, seeing doctors, constant check ins, keeping her busy, making the house safe by basically being a prisoner in our home. We tried, everything. Whatever it was, it was just too much for her, I do see some light in that and wish she took that drive she had for that split moment decision and had just a tad more to just say something, anything. We were sleeping on the couch that night, she came out, laid down next to Jaxon and I. Why didn't she wake us up? We would have done something, anything, to not have to live through what we are currently facing. Those demons, she succumbed to whatever they were took over.

We don't know her WHY, Why she isn't here, Why she made that choice, just why? It was probably a combination of a lot of things that created the perfect storm. Our hearts are broken, our lives are shattered. We can't say we are ok. We aren't but as the minutes pass, it does get better. Minute by minute, hour by hour. I witnessed this the day after and everyday sense. #LOVE2LIV  #LIV2LOVE and most of all #LIV4LIV Someone is always there for you! Including me, YOU are loved, wanted, and YOU need to be here!

Alivia was a vibrant soul with frequently sporting a different hair color or style with dreams and aspirations, She touched the hearts of so many with her kindness, sense of humor, outgoing personality, and spunkiness. Tragically, she succumbed to the pain caused by relentless bullying, which we discovered through heartbreaking messages on her phone. We are angry, sad, and disappointed in these individuals. In her memory, we urge those who have participated in this cycle of hurt to reflect on their actions and seek help. Words hold immense power, and it's crucial to consider the impact they can have on others now and into the future. Let Alivia's story inspire change, foster compassion, and encourage open conversations about mental health and the importance of kindness in our snaps, videos, and text communications. We do not want another family to feel this pain and helplessness.